The key to success on AFF is to realize that meeting people is no different than in person. You need to treat people with class, humility, and humanity and keep it low pressure. Just because you are on the internet doesn’t give you the right to constantly harp on sex, use lewd and obnoxious sexual references in all your emails, or pressure women about sex. Treat it as if you were meeting a new friend. You should be open minded and interested in learning about your new acquaintances as people. If you try to get between a man and his wife, tell her you are better than her husband, or appear that you might fall in love with her if you fuck her, you will be deleted without a second thought and possibly blackballed among that couples friends as well.
Remember, you both are there for sex so you needn’t worry about that, it will happen if a mental connection is there (And for many people the sex will be more frequent and kinky than they have previously experienced). Continue reading “And for gods sake, respect the sanctity of peoples relationships!”